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Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Resolving to Read

I love making New Years Resolutions.  Some only last so long, such as the annual resolution to go to bed earlier and wake up earlier.  Others have been almost life-changing, such as when a few years ago I resolved to "giving up TV" except for watching The Office, the only show that Jarred and I both shared in common.  I realized that I had become addicted to wasting time watching "reality shows" on a screen rather than living in reality.  It was then that I became a reader and found other more important things to do in the evening.

So this year one of my resolutions is to read one hour a day.  I have a long list of books waiting to be read as well as a large pile gifted to me for Christmas.  I cannot wait to delve inside their covers and get lost in the novel my brother gave me.  But I am especially looking forward to reading some of the non-fiction books given me.  There are so many amazing people whose lives have created beautiful, inspiring stories--stories that continue to inspire new stories in new people.

Since I am trying to live with a greater global perspective, I want to read stories outside the walls of my familiar territory.  I want to learn more about the movers and shakers of world history, not just of American history.  I want to learn from those outside of my own religious upbringing.  I want to learn from those whose economic and social and ethnic backgrounds differ from my own.

I am beginning with one of my Christmas books from my mother-in-law, Where There is Love, There is God, words and teachings from Mother Teresa, edited by Brian Kolodiejchuk, M.C.  Here is a life of a devoted Catholic nun, an Albanian woman who spent most of her life ministering to the poorest of the poor in Calcutta, India. Though I have only read the first chapter, I am already amazed by this woman's love for God, her simplicity, and her love for all people.  This woman's close connection to the Source of Love enabled her to see God's imprint on every human being, even the Hindu Indians with whom she lived.

Mother Teresa did not believe that everyone was called to Calcutta as she was, though thousands of Missionaries of Charity, sisters and brothers, were spread around the world at the time of her death, loving the poorest of the poor just as she had.  She believe everyone ought to find their own Calcutta.

There was once a man from Holland who came to her and told here that he had a lot of money.  She told him that she didn't need his money.  He asked if he should sell his big house and his expensive car.  She told him, "No.  But what I want you to do is to go back and see some of the many lonely people that live in Holland.  Then every now and then, I want you to bring a few of them at a time and entertain them.  Bring them in that big car of yours and let them enjoy a few hours in your beautiful house.  Then your big house will become a center of love--full of light, full of joy, full of life" (Where There is Love, There is God, p.28).

So at the start of this New Year, I am asking myself what does it look like for me, for you, to create "centers of love"?  In our own homes? In our own communities?  In the larger world?

5 comments:

  1. Hey dear Nettie,
    I realized I haven't kept up with your blogs lately and I miss that. Reading your blog lets me enter into some of your personal thoughts and usually inspires me. The book from Elta sounds very interesting, and I know you will love it. I decided to give up TV while Jason is in Brazil and try to use the time I have wasted on the Hallmark channel and put it to better use. One of my goals was to spend more time alone with the Lord during those hours of the TV and also get more organized my my closets as well. As you know Claudia's recent blog on simplifying her clothes helped me to be more intentional in paring down when I started my first closet renewal! I found some wonderful books that I had stored away for a rainy day and brought them out to read at night. Most are inspirational and can be used in my goal to "come apart & rest with Him" Thanks for blogging from your heart. You are a blessing to me.

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  2. Thanks for your comment, Mom-a-loo! It sounds like you and Dad are both trying to exchange TV time for more reading; how great to share the same resolutions! I hope your de-cluttering project goes well. It's a great feeling to get rid of stuff, and I love that you always donate your things to the MCC thrift store near you (http://thrift.mcc.org/). Happy reading and organizing!!!

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  3. Annette,
    Great post friend! I love your goals (I know you told me a little bit about these, but it is great to read in detail) I didn't know you had decided to stop watching tv too! Isn't it wonderful??!!!! So much more time to develop our minds! :)
    I'm looking forward to hearing about the books you are reading! :)

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  4. Hey Claudia! I must confess that I have not always abstained from everything except The Office. We actually ordered a DVR box (which we may be taking back soon) and for awhile I was taping, then watching, Oprah and Dr. Oz. Now if the TV is on, it is when Dylan and Jarred are following football or baseball or for re-runs of Extreme HomeMakeover (LOVE that show for the perspective it brings!) For me, it was important to realize how fulfilling life could be without "my" TV shows and how I truly didn't miss them when I stopped following them! It no longer has a tight grip on me. YEAH! Freedom!!! So glad you are finding that same freedom. I thought your most recent post was SO INSPIRING. If it weren't for the sports-loving men in my family, I would love to cancel our Comcast subscription, too! :-D

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  5. Haa-ha I can actually relate to the sports! I do miss watching the Phillies :)
    But yes, when the TV is on I can't take my eyes off it!! So, I am greatly enjoying not having the temptation :)

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